Dating Violence

Teen Dating Violence

Teenagers often experience violence in dating relationships. Statistics show that one in three teenagers has experienced dating violence. In dating violence, one partner tries to maintain power and control over the other through abuse. Dating violence crosses all racial, economic and social lines. Most victims are young women, who are also at greater risk for serious injury. Young women need a dating safety plan.

Teen dating violence often is hidden because teens typically:

• Are inexperienced with dating relationships
• Are pressured by peers to act violently
• Want independence from parents
• Have unrealistic “romantic” views of love

Teen dating violence is influenced by how teenagers look at themselves and others.

Young men may believe:

• they have the right to “control” their female partners in any way necessary.
• “masculinity” is physical aggressiveness
• they “possess” their partner.
• they should demand intimacy.
• they may lose respect if they are attentive and supportive toward their girlfriends.

Young women may believe:

• they are responsible for solving problems in their relationships
• their boyfriend’s jealousy, possessiveness and even physical abuse, is “romantic.”
• abuse is “normal” because their friends are also being abused
• there is no one to ask for help